Naughty Things
This page is about some of the other things that I enjoy. You might already love the thought of some of them, or it might make you curious.
They are just a few of the possibilities, so read them as ideas that you could then ask more about...
Girl/Girl
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to touch another woman, and for her to touch you. The beautiful softness and sensitivity, and the understanding of what feels good for each other. If you are curious, but wouldn't know how to meet someone in an uncomplicated way, or perhaps you are nervous about what you would do if you found yourself with someone.. I can introduce you, and take all the stress from the situation by taking control and telling you what to do. I have no need to be directly involved. To find out how it might work, look at the first story on the 'Clit-Lit' page, which is a true account of 'Two Girls' I introduced to each other ...
Domination/Submission
Is the consensual exchange of erotic control, that allows you to explore the fantasies you have thought about for so long. I adore taking control, and it takes careful understanding to allow you to find the place you need. A Dominating/Submission relationship has a fantastic spin off, in that it requires excellent communication to be successful. So it can be deeply fulfilling at it's best.
Master/Slave
Is a level of power exchange where someone wants to feel the arousal of control more completely, and in everyday life.
It isn't about abuse, but is about both Master and slave wanting the same thing, and working hard to make it happen.
I can talk with you about this, but there is a true feeling of completeness to being such a centre of attention and care, and a huge turn-on that someone is taking control.
From learning to carry out simple tasks, to being constantly aware of the discipline and guidance of your Master.
It is often missunderstood by those who don't take the time to appreciate it.
A good Master/Slave relationship will always recognise your wellbeing, happiness, responsibilities and commitments, and will work with those to add an erotic dimension to your life that can feel like almost permanent arousal. It is a gorgeous new level of sensuality for the right person. Like any relationship, it is not a fixed formula. People have different levels of Master/Slave, from a deeper Domination/submission, right through to strict physical and psychological control. Again, I want to stress it should never be something which harms you, because it works with you and what you need.
Daddy's Girl
If perhaps you can begin to see the psychology that is a theme through all power exchange, it is the sense of having decisions taken away from you. This can be a hugely nurturing, safe and cozy feeling. A protection fromall the difficult things, and a love of being sexualised and valued. Knowing someone is there who will look after you. I adore Daddy's girls, and an older Daddy and a younger woman are probably the most common - But Always Strictly Between Adults.
Puppy GirlThose who start to enjoy power exchange situations often develop an interest in more elaborate ideas. Puppy Girls often love to dress for the part, and enjoy the control that almost takes them out of themselves, and the ease of doing as you are told in another form. Curling up at your Master's feet, obeying commands, feeling the sense of being almost an object to be enjoyed. There are Pony Girls too!
Orgasm Control
This takes a lot of preparation and is based on honesty and discipline. Total honesty is essential, otherwise there is no point trying this, which is why good communication is the first step. There is a huge heightening of your arousal as a sexual being from having your ability to touch and pleasure yourself controlled. The frustration of orgasm denial and the intensity of being allowed to play or cum at the right time is one of the most intoxicating controls that you can feel, and many women who couldn't possibly imagine it at first, learn to crave orgasm control.
Humiliation
This is a powerful fantasy about wanting to be treated like a dirty little bitch, a slut and a sex toy. It involves verbal and physical humiliation and being taken and used, and it's something I love to do. Like always it is about building trust first, and knowing you are safe and there are good boundaries in place with someone experienced. Then you can let go, and be the dirty girl you want to be..
Fisting
This again is something that needs to be done with much care, cleanliness and patience. It is a very arousing sensation for a woman to be 'filled' and with the right preparation, communication and time taken, it is something I enjoy giving.
Anal Play
The important thing about anal play is taking time and care, allowing you to relax because you feel safe and know that nothing sudden will happen. Some women find it hugely pleasurable, others are deterred by the very idea! Either way, it is a part of the body that is very sensitive, and can be deeply arousing when it is done properly.
BondageThis connects with many of the possibilities above. From the subtlety of mental bondage, to simply having your hands tied, to being tied or chained to a wall, bed or another object. You can be caged or suspended too, and I have both on my Dungeon page. It can work with all kinds of toys, such as blindfolds, cuffs, collars, nipple clamps, dildos and many more. It is about being helpless, and waiting...
I could go on and on! So I hope you will just get a sense of the possibilities from the above, and understand that there are many different activities and variations. It really is about talking and finding out what you need. So please don't be afraid to have a chat...