Questions and Answers
On this page I am just trying to answer some of the things that tend to be in the mind of someone who is thinking about getting in touch with me.
It's based on all the conversations I've had, and the things women have said to me over the years.
If you have anything else you want to ask, then just drop me a message and I will be happy to reply.
Q: I've read about what you do and I'm really curious and interested, but I'm nervous too and can't imagine being able to really try things like that
A: It's something new and different, and who wouldn't be a bit nervous! That's why I stress sending me a message and then plenty of talking first, to help you find out if
you want to explore more. I am happy just to chat, and then it's up to you if you want to find out more, or if you just want to leave it there.
Q: I would love to be able to try things, but I would never be able to in case my friends or family found out
A: I am very serious about discretion and your personal privacy. It is basic to what I do, that you have the confidence to know you will never be contacted by me unless
you ask me to. Anything that you decide to discuss or do will be treated in full confidence. I want you to feel comfortable and to feel safe.
Q: When we meet would you want to do stuff straight away
A: No. The first thing I need to do is just have a chat with you, find out a bit about what you need and then take it from there. Sometimes someone knows exactly
what she wants, and maybe things happen quickly. Other times there is much more talking, and maybe only talking.
Q: What kind of place do you have
A: I live in my own home, which is modern and warm, private, clean and tidy! Cleanliness and hygiene is important to me, and it is important to take care of your health
and safety.
Q: I don't feel that confident about my body (or it might be age, or looks) and I don't think you'd be interested in me
A: It's people that I love, regardless of anything else. Sometimes the woman with the most concerns about herself, ends up being the most sensual person of all. It's
just been hidden away, waiting for the chance to come through and to be enjoyed.
Q: Is it just about sex and will you expect to have sex with me
A: No it's about a whole load more than just sex. You might end up just talking only, if that's what you need. It may be that sex is part of the problem... the fact
that there hasn't been enough communication for you in the past, touch and warmth, respect and understanding, imagination and excitement.
Q: I don't like pain so I couldn't try anything like being spanked
A: It's not about just hurting you, and I would never do that. It's about the arousal of something being done to you, being controlled and played with. People enjoy
all different levels, from very mild to severe, and I will only give you what you need and can take. You will never be taken further than is right for you.
Q: I don't know whether to have the chocolate or the cake
A: Hey, have both!
Donuts. Is there anything they can't do?
- Homer Simpson