Spanking
I have over ten years experience helping women express their submissive side, in a careful safe and progressive way that is suited to your needs.
Your submission is an erotic consensual power exchange,
and a desire in you to hand over control to someone you learn to trust.
To enable yourself to learn to let go and discover the deepest darkest desire to be used, but to be safe.
It is not about one person being better than the other, or about an abusive relationship.
It might work like this...
To have you across my lap, your skirt pulled up to your waist and your panties pulled down. You lie there exposed and squirming while I stroke and tease you, talk to you and reassure you, before I gently start to smack your upturned cheeks while my other hand holds you firmly in place. Each stroke landing carefully, bringing a growing flush of pink to your behind, and the wetness between your legs betraying your swollen arousal.
I teach you how to push up your already gently stinging backside, offering yourself for more. Always guided by me and needing only to learn it is safe to let go, to need to be spanked, to want to feel the delicious erotic sensation of exposure, submission, pleasure in acceptance and obedience. The strokes alternating with stroking to allow the warmth to flow across you, then fresh strokes striking each cheek in turn, measured and controlled. Sometimes building, and then easing as you catch your gasping breath and realise you are being shown how you can take a little more. Heightened arousal and a wanton need to give and be taken, controlled and disciplined. Always safely, and always within your boundaries and my judgement of when you should be brought safely down until next time.
After, you feel the warm glow of your cheeks as you find your way home. The arousal still there and a hunger growing. Perhaps smiling inwardly to yourself wondering if anyone could possibly imagine what you have been doing, how soaked you still are and how gorgeously naughty you still feel.
Later still, you will need to lie down and close your eyes, touch yourself and relive how it felt, how you want more..
Spanking works in different ways. There is the sexual arousal of exposure and discipline. There is the bodies physical reaction, which is to release endorphins, the bodies natural opiates. These are produced during periods of excitement and stress, from orgasm through danger to pain. Endorphin rush goes some way to explain how pleasure and controlled pain can come together in the right circumstances.
This combined with the place that some people can find in their head when everything is just right, can lead to a feeling of almost hypnotic submission - often called 'subspace'. It is not uncommon for me to have spanked someone progressively and with a careful rhythm for an extended time, and for her to be almost asleep! Aware but very much at a different level of consciousness. Something many come to adore.
Spanking can act as Therapy too. It can be an emotional release, and sometimes ublocks barriers that words find difficult to touch, dealing at a deeper more primitive emotional level than the language of the higher brain.
It may sound strange, but many women express over time a wish to be spanked until they cry. This is not an abuse, but a very real emotional release valve. It has to be seen in context, involves talking and trust beforehand, is not something that can just be switched on, and needs plenty of empathy and care.
So whether you are just curious to explore, want desperately to be erotically disciplined, or need the physical and emotional release...
I love to spank, and would be happy to chat with you.
